Are you afraid of being YOU?
Whatever area it is – professional, social, physical, mental, spiritual – what are you afraid of?
Perhaps fear is holding you back …
♦ Fear of failure
♦ Fear of poverty
♦ Fear of loss
♦ Fear of rejection
♦ Fear of embarrassment
♦ Fear of the unknown
♦ Fear of other people’s opinions
♦ Fear of being alone
♦ Fear of future
These, and many other fears, hold us back throughout life. Fear is everywhere.
But fear can be controlled, even overcome.
All too often, however, people underestimate their abilities and the influence they have over their lives. They feel powerless. They are so afraid of making the “wrong” decision. And they end up doing …nothing. They remain stuck and unhappy. They are paralysed by fear. They stay in the shadows.
They are too afraid to shine!!
Don’t let that be you! You always have a choice. You can step out of the shadows and shine. And be a shining example to others too.
How?
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It all starts with YOU – take action
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Show compassion and kindness to yourself and others
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Share your unique gift and talents
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Be a little vulnerable. Yes, you! Share your own shortcomings and struggles. By sharing your struggles you can inspire and motivate others
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Be open to new experiences. Embrace life with open arms
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Smile at strangers
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Offer a helping hand
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Hold the door for someone
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See the goodness in others, no matter how they behave
There are so many SMALL ways to make a BIG difference. There are so many ways to shine!
So, get out there. Take action. By shining your light, you can make a huge difference in the lives of others – today.
And I guarantee, you brighten up your own day too.
The world needs your shining light – more than ever!
Eila Mikkonen
Counsellor, Coach & Mental Fitness Facilitator